“Gay Wives”

Posted: January 10, 2013 in Vision

Refer to Halfway Mine.

They form a club who call themselves the Gay Wives. I read about them a few years ago. Like in the snip, these are all women who have been married to men that years deeper into the marriage, some after fathering a few children, admitted that they’re gay.

So they get together weekly, probably reminding themselves and each other about the agonizing discomfort they faced when their beloveds admitted their homosexuality. These women go about telling the world how much sadness they feel. I mean they contact magazines for crying out loud!! They feel that the world has to… Wishes to know about them while I’m sitting here actually giving a shit.

First let me say that I can understand their pain. I know a man shouldn’t paint a woman some fairytale if he isn’t really interested in her. I know he shouldn’t promise her all of her dreams if he understands that some time later he might dump her and it all for a man.

There are four parties involved here. 1. The woman who now tells the world what a misshapen her ex husband is after he finally gathered enough courage to admit something he hoped she would understand. 2. The ex husband who probably doesn’t wanna show his face anywhere because she made sure that none of their family, friends or acquaintances has time for him. As if this isn’t enough she has to contact a magazine globally published to tell the rest of those who really don’t care. 3. The ex husband’s new boyfriend who has been innocent all along but probably also gossiped about by her so dreadfully, it’s best he doesn’t introduce himself. 4. Society, the factual reason the ex husband stayed trapped in the closet and rather married a woman.

Sometimes I am astounded when I learn how involved society really is in every life. I truly believe that if there were more open minds towards homosexuality to start with, no man would have trashed a woman’s heart before being his true self.

Years ago homosexuality was a reason for arrest, but the Gay Wives wanna tell the world how hurt they are.

In some countries gay people were stoned to death, but the Gay Wives wanna tell the world how hurt they are.

In other countries gay people were hung by the neck on overhead cranes, but the Gay Wives wanna tell the world how hurt they are.

Let’s not imagine the lives that were burnt to death because they chose to love someone of the same sex because the Gay Wives wanna tell the world how hurt they are.

Let’s forget about parents who murdered their own children because they refused to live with a scandal, because the Gay Wives wanna tell the world how hurt they are.

Let’s not mention the amount of teenagers who committed suicide because they were too horrified to face their parents because the Gay Wives wanna tell the world how hurt they are.

Let’s not remember that gay people were chased out of countries for committing “such an offensive sin” as they called it, because the Gay Wives want the world to understand how hurt they are.

Let’s forget about homicides on gay couples that weren’t even solved because “they had it coming anyway” like claimed, because the Gay Wives really want the world to understand how hurt they are.

Let’s not bring to mind that homosexuality was the most hated nature because the Gay Wives really want the world to understand how hurt they are.

Let’s not commit to memory that homosexuality was never welcomed in slightest of welcomes because the Gay Wives really want the world to understand how hurt they are.

Let’s not consider that there are people out there trying to stand up for FAIR HOMOSEXUAL RIGHTS because the Gay Wives really want the world to understand how hurt they are.

Is anyone else getting this?!!!!!

Who can blame the closet cases for hooking up with the women rather than men? To me it looks like they were always FEARING FOR THEIR DAMN LIVES!! If twenty years ago being your gay self wasn’t punishable by law you wouldn’t have been sitting in this mess!

Twenty years later people become a little more open-minded towards the issue, what are you gonna do? Well of course you’re gonna jump out of the closet!!

YOU’RE BLAMING THE WRONG PEOPLE, LADIES!!! Your forefathers are the reason you dealt the agonizing discomfort.

I’m confused? WHAT IS YOUR CLUB ACTUALLY ALL ABOUT?!!?!!?!!

Grow the hell up. You wanna convince every mind that you’re in pain while all along you were the one who enjoyed every night’s rest. You never had to face the questions… The feelings… The actual agony… The hatred… The discriminations… The brutal remarks… The cruel chase… The vicious executor… You think YOU know pain?

My thought for today: Many women out there have been dumped by ex boyfriends or husbands before. You didn’t see them run off to some magazine because they couldn’t deal with it.

Harlan Z. Maroni.

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